I am not sure of the reason but especially in recent
summers my awareness of a grateful heart has grown. And, this summer I am
particularly grateful.
For the past ten years I have had the privilege of
meeting weekly with men and women who are coping with a cancer and all that
this diagnosis entails. Many in the group relate experiencing a desire to be
with others who are going through similar experiences. In time individual
concerns are expressed, group connections are made, bonds are formed, and
community is created.
In listening to
them I experience a deeper appreciation for the preciousness of life and its
fragility, being mindful of the beauty of each day and endeavoring then not to
get caught up in the small stuff of life. Listening to their statements similar
to “it is ironical but cancer taught me how to live;” or “if I hadn’t got
cancer I don’t believe that I would have reconciled with my daughter;” or “I
don’t take anything for granted” and “I try to live a full life as much as
possible, and make every moment count” has had a deep impact in my life.
With
deepening awareness and commitment, I try to put into action
each day what this group practices and Galen Guengeriich recommends “Breathe a
prayer of gratitude. And give those you love an extra measure of affection.
Life is fleeting and love is precious. Cherish both.”
Sr. Aileen Bankemper, OSB
It is interesting that I should Eads your blog after finishing a phone conversation with my sister Beverly who was diagnosed with cancer. Previous to the call I visited Yvonne and for some reason I came back to my cottage very sad. AS I talked with Bev my problems disappeared. At one point I told that it was time for her to be a love and prayer acceptor.I really didn't know at first where that came but now I remember. It was Richard Rohr.
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