Wednesday, November 9, 2016

From Hearing to Listening to Healing

       Wed., 11/9  Overnight the primal scream that has been crying throughout the world found its voice in the United States. A significant part of the US population that has felt unheard and ignored for a long time forced the rest of the country to feel its pain. With seismic force, chasms that many did not know existed, were unearthed in the cities and countrysides of America
       After an election colored by name calling, harsh judgments, and false assumptions across the political spectrum, our country is left to deal with a pain, fear, and frustration similar to that which  has raised its head in many countries around the globe. From African countries with no stable government to England, from Arab Spring to Brexit, groups of people have been forcing those who hold the reins of power to pay attention to them. 
       The causes underlying this cacophony are probably multiple, but I’d guess a major one stems from the almost cataclysmic changes that have come to us in just one lifetime - communication, immigration, manufacturing, transportation……  As one commentator put it, it’s as powerful a change in society as the 19th century industrial revolution. And who’s been hurt the most? The millions of people who have the fewest resources to cope.
       What now? During the election campaign, lines weren’t just drawn in the sand; ditches were dug. Bridges weren’t just dismantled; they were bombed. How does one move on from here?  How does healing and reconstruction begin? Who can lead? 
       This is where we come in, we, people of faith and good will. Our call is as seismic as the one that shook our country last night. We who believe in a power greater than a single individual - humanist, Christian, Jew, Hindu, Muslim, Native American… - all of us are being challenged to reach out across all divides, old or new, to learn another’s reality. Painful as it is, we need to listen to another person’s truth, and try to understand why theirs is different from our own.  All of us are wounded in some way. We are frail and imperfect, but each of us has the power to heal another because we have the power to love. Listening is a form of loving. 
       As a Catholic Christian, I know that the God who lives within me lives within each person around me. I know that Jesus reached out across society’s dividing lines and touched the good within others who had been judged sinful or religiously unclean. I am called to imitate him, and, because at one time or another I have experienced it, I know a word or a touch can heal.
        On this 11/9 I am reminded of another 9/11 when our country was called to come together. Today and the days to come, we are called to put on a new mind, a mind that realizes our individual perspective is not always shared by others, but if we work at it, we can probably find common ground. Our forebears who wrote the constitution had a similar challenge. They succeeded. Can we? Then what?
       
Blessings on us all for the difficult journey ahead.
                       Sr. Colleen Winston, OSB

8 comments:

  1. Dear Sister, thank you for your good post. May the Lord God grant wisdom to the leaders of the world, to build bridges of trust and understanding, to remove the bitterness of past suffering, and enable new achievements in cooperation! Lord Jesus, grant us better teaching in our schools, that we may understand our distant neighbors, Chinese wisdom, the history of Central Asia, ancient India. Lord, your love was always present, throughout history and throughout time, your love has never failed, help us to understand this, thanks be to you, amen.

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  2. Thank you for identifying the pain that caused this conclusion. I believe your analysis and intend to get up, to listen more and to pay close attention to what will follow. I am afraid, but I am a friend as well.

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  3. My mother and father voted for Trump because they want to keep everything the same. They like it white, straight and Christian. As their lesbian daughter who is agnostic, I have a hard time trying to find a desire and willingness to reach across the divide and soothe their hurt. I can only be who I am and be a good person. Their sickness is racism, homophobia and sexism - it has nothing to do with a change in manufacturing, transportation or communication. This may not be everyone's reason for voting for our elected president but it is the story of my own parents.

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    1. It is easy to reach out to those suffering injustice and are marginalized by our society. It is more difficult to want to dialogue with those intolerant of others who seemingly are close minded and self righteous. It is difficult to feel compassion for these others even if they might be fearful or feel their voices aren't heard. Yet here we do have common ground for we are fearful and want our voices recognized. And if we are truthful we must, all of us, know that at times we too have been intolerant.

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    2. It is NOT easy to reach to those suffering injustice when they have been deported, or their parents have been deported, and their dear ones are marginalized in the literal sense of that word (outside of the acceptable borders) Let the self-righteous flounder in their self-righteousness until they are confunded by their own need of mercy.

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  4. Well stated and now the hard journey of reaching across the divide, the chasm, and listening and loving. I am committed to do both.

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  5. thank you sister colleen for calling us to the love of Jesus. we are called to love one another. as people of faith, we know we are not alone. day by day may we be stronger together.

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  6. I agree we need to listen and pray. We may also need to take action - writing our congresspeople, visiting congresspeople, joining groups of peace and justice.

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